Still waiting, for the right one

Went on a date last weekend. A date with an ordinary friend who I barely understand him. But most importantly, he is the man who I mentioned in my previous post, who reminds me that I was just looking around.

We went for dinner, a couple of drinks and movie at The Gardens. It's a great date. =)

Well, to be honest, he is my cup of tea. I like him a lot, but not to say love. He is someone who is interesting and fun to hang out with. Someone who couldn't remember where he parked his car. Someone who passed me popcorn left behind by others on the cinema’s table after I came out from the washroom, which I thought he bought it. Someone who tried to burn my ass with his mom’s car seat’s heater on the first time he send me back home from office. Someone who chased after me in the shop with a pair of ballet shoes for kids, asking me to try it on. Someone who gave me an octopus last Christmas. And also someone who takes his job seriously, but not relationship.

When talking about relationship, he said 'Who the hell will think of getting married?'

Exactly! Who the hell will want to get married so soon? Commitments and responsibilities are all seems to be a burden/trouble for me. We are just way too young to think of getting serious! 

I always think that it is better not to get too serious in a relationship. I need to watch out for myself, so that I would not be the one who get hurts. It’s just like what others are doing. Say I’m selfish. But I think I’m doing the right thing to protect myself.

I'm 21 this year. Been thru 4 relationships. But as you can see, I'm currently single. 
I enjoy the life of being single. No commitments, I can hang out with whoever I want, I can do whatever shit I like without need to report to my partner, and do not need to seek approval like a kid to get to go out with friends. This is the beauty of single rite? 

Though sometimes you’ll feel lonely, but what's the point to immerse yourself into a relationship just to ease your loneliness, and then been thru several broken relationships before you meet the right one? They say love just comes and goes, and to that, I totally agree. You might find I’m hilarious rite, don’t you? LOL

I believe Mr.Right will appear at the RIGHT time, and at the RIGHT place. There is no need for you to be hurry and look around. It is always will be better for you to take your time, observe the people around you before you make the most brilliant right choice. Like what they said, a good meal should not be hurried. =D

In my preceding relationships I started off without knowing my partner well enuff. We did not take time to know each other’s behavior well, did not take time to find out whether are we able to go well with each other. As long as the feeling comes, as long as both of us have a click, then we will carry our relationship one step ahead.
We’ve been really lovely and sweet when the relationship just got started. But after awhile, we find that actually we don’t really suit each others. We always got into fight. We tried to change. However I don’t see the point of changing yourself for your partner. That is not the real you anymore.
Even if you want to change, to which extend you can change? There will still be an immense gap between both of you.

Anyway, time will show me my Mr.Right. =)

Friday, April 24, 2009