Seems like it has been ages since the very last time i updated my blog.
Streamyx connection at my place in SS2 being terminated since my stupid housemate did not pay the bills, so i've been stayin offline for a couple of weeks. And now, finally...i'm able to come online. =)
A few people asked me this question lately
'What do you want in a boyfriend?'
My 1st answer will be, he has to be someone who knows the way to keep the relationship interesting. He has to be someone romantic, who can gives me a sweet surprises especially on special occasions and would be able to get me hype up. Girls love surprise, right? I find it is important for a guy to know how to keep a relationship interesting, especially after being together for sometimes. U do not want to do the same thing every single day, repeating the same routine, saying the same words FOR YEARS, do you? Im sure you do not want the relationship to be dull and so do I.
He has to be someone smart and intelligent too i guess. I want someone who can challenge me to be a better person. Since im improving myself now, I always thinks that i deserve to have a better man. I would want to have a man who tries to improve himself, in any way, career and personalities wise. I am the kind of girl who has high embitious, and of cz i wouldn't want my man to be someone who is barren or gives the 'like-i-care' kinda attitude towards work. He needs to have the same intellectual level as me or superior than me. =)
3rd, he has to be someone who will comfort me whenever i face problems, instead of nagging at me. When you're tormented by all the problems around you, you would need someone to comfort you, or probably u'll scream at the whole world 'LEAVE ME ALONE!'. You definately would not want to have someone to nag at you and cause you greater exasperation. But some guys just don't understand this. I hate guys who nag at you as if he's the most brilliant and insightful man on planet earth.
Besides, he has to be someone who will notice the little details about me, and appreciates them. He needs to have very strong observations, to knows what are the things i like, and what are those i hate.
Within few months time, i've changed a lot. I used to be someone who wants my boy friend to call me every single nite, text me every single day. And since I started working for my internship, I realised how tiring it is. I'm feeling sorry for being so demanding for wanting a working man to call me every single nite. Now, I do not want a boy friend who accompanies me 24/7. I do not need a boy friend who text me whole day long. Meeting each other once a week is just fine for me. I do not think that we need to stay together more frequent to keep the relationship going on, especially if the guy is a dull type. I need time for myself, and for my friends.
He needs to be someone sweet, who will cooks for me, who will watch me walking into the house when he drops me home, who will not wakes me up when i'm aslp, who will kiss me on my forehead before i sleep and will do lotsa lotsa sweet things to me =)
Lastly, he needs to be someone who is really gentleman. A not-gentleman-guy is a BIG NO for me!
Damn it's a wholly unacheivable list! I guess it's hard for me to meet this kind of man and get married, sort of impossible =P
Good thing I'm okay with being single =D
